...joyed exhibiting her in minis, a pool side bikini, and taking her to urban nightclubs where they still had classic strippers (ala Vegas). Fun sexual topics. Two major contributions to Jan moving forward into real independent sexual experiences were: her use of the birth control pill (quite radical at the time) and a serious directive that she could even have sex with other men. To play on the freedom, to maximize it within the then open marriage, I instructed her that she did not even have to tell me that it “happened”. Think Woodstock, “free love”, University level hippies and other realities of the time period.
As geeks, and as a part of the overall experience of experimentation within many subjects, in 1970, I encouraged Jan to take an advanced level film class. She signed up for the only advanced class at PU. It was a graduate level class, with a strange film professor, a professor who had moved from university to university across the USA. Tenure did not seem attainable for him, anywhere. He came originally from the Berkeley campus of California, and I should have anticipated that he had the ability to go beyond the strange or the eccentric.
As he intended the class to freely discuss techniques of avant-garde eroticism in the movie industry (his own agenda, not what was specified within t...